Healthy or Toxic Relationship Scale: Shane and Mitchie: part 2

Hello, my beautiful beauts! I hope you had a lovely day. I am so excited to do this deep dive—especially since I haven’t watched Camp Rock 2 in years. I was hesitant to rewatch it because I already know how it ends. I also haven’t been able to look at Camp Rock and Camp Rock 2 the same ever since Demi Lovato revealed that she was being harmed at the time and still had to play a happy teenager while being around her abuser.

However, I decided to revisit these movies to remind myself why I was once obsessed with Camp Rock, Demi Lovato, and the Jonas Brothers. My younger self was swayed, and as an adult I still feel swayed—but this time, I want to fully analyze the complicated relationship between Shane and Mitchie without letting nostalgia blind me.

Before I get into this deep dive, I wanted to announce that I will not be doing one on Shane and Mitchie’s relationship in Camp Rock 3, since Demi Lovato is not reprising her role as Mitchie. At first, I was disappointed—because let’s be real, there is no Camp Rock without Demi. Our generation was amazed by her out-of-this-world voice, and Camp Rock would not have been nearly as successful without her.

However, I completely understand where she’s coming from. She went through trauma on set, and now she is living a happy life that she deserves. Anyways, I’ll still watch the movie as a critic and then give you guys my rating for Camp Rock 3.

Now, let’s get into Camp Rock 2!

Okay, the movie begins with Mitchie and Shane thinking about seeing each other at camp, and I already noticed something strange about their relationship. Didn’t anyone else find it odd that Shane and Mitchie—who clearly like each other—haven’t seen each other in over a year? Did they decide to just be friends or try long distance? That part is really unclear.

Mitchie says that nothing has been going on, so technically they’re together, but nothing has happened between them for over a year. Still, she does say she’s excited to see him. To me, it sounds like they fizzled out because Shane has been on the road.

I also found it odd that Shane’s first instinct when he sees her is just to say, “Hey, Mitchie.” I know as teenagers we think we’ve got it all figured out, but that is the bare minimum. It feels like Shane pulled away, while Mitchie is left feeling like he’s not interested in her.

I don’t care how famous someone is—people do have time to see their non-famous friends or significant others. This doesn’t sound like a real relationship. And even if they weren’t officially together, Shane has still been a bad friend to her by not spending any quality time with her.

Okay, Shane and Mitchie reunite with a hug, and Mitchie is so happy to hear that they’ll be there all summer, which means they can finally catch up. Shane’s uncle points out that while Connect 3 is visiting because they miss him, he seems to imply that Shane is actually there because he misses Mitchie. Their reunion makes it clear that they still have chemistry—you can see it in their eyes.

As Shane is struggling to get on land from the boat, Mitchie pulls him in. She says, “See, these are the types of things you can’t learn over email.” Shane replies, “I wish we had gone back to that.” Odd. I don’t think email is the best way to stay open, but then again, these were different times. I’m sure they might have called, but their dynamic is still confusing when they describe their time apart.

In the uncut version, Mitchie dedicates a song to Shane and calls him her friend. Okay, I get that they’re not official, but I’m pretty sure they’re more than just friends. Maybe I’m reading too much into it, so I asked my husband about it—he said he had been in the same situation when he was younger. According to him, it’s okay because they had a long history of being friends without anything happening yet.

Anyways, she wrote about remembering the special moments she shared with Shane during their time together. I know this isn’t a huge detail, but the way Shane looks at Mitchie after her performance has me swooning. ^_^

I’m sorry, but this is just so cute—even though it’s short! Shane tells Mitchie, “Okay, so what do I have to do to pull you away from this clipboard?” Eeeeee ^_^

As Shane is having a conversation with Nate, Mitchie playfully tackles him from behind, knocking him to the ground. She tells him she’s having the best day ever after struggling with the schedules. Shane gives Mitchie all the credit, but she insists it’s because of their teamwork.

Shane admits that he’s annoyed with the new schedule, since it leaves them with barely any time together. He wants to spend time with Mitchie to get to know her better, but it feels like they haven’t really seen each other since last summer. Mitchie calls that sweet, but before they can continue, she gets pulled into a staff meeting. Shane, however, is understanding about her time.

After Mitchie and the camp agree to compete against Camp Star, everyone ends up with less free time, which saddens Shane. Mitchie tries to make some time for him, but her schedule is packed with other commitments. I didn’t like that Mitchie created such time-consuming practices that she had no free time left—for herself or for Shane.

  • Side note: it’s a bit funny and confusing that after Brown gives a dramatic speech about how they might lose the camp, he then has Shane start a water balloon fight.

Granted, I can understand where Mitchie is coming from. She has a passion for music and doesn’t want to lose the camp where she can create music and make memorable moments. I know she cares about the camp, but this is time she’ll never get back.

Shane does have a point: all this work to save the camp, with no free time to relax or spend together, will end badly for them. They only have the summer to share meaningful moments and recapture the time when they fell in love. I just wish she weren’t so dismissive of his feelings.

Shane goes to find Mitchie working on some songs. When Mitchie assumes Shane will help her, he refuses to take her out on a picnic date. Mitchie gets frustrated and reminds him about all the work she’s trying to complete. Shane, annoyed, replies that he can’t forget about the Final Jam work because that’s all she ever talks about.

Then Shane reminds her that he came to camp to get to know her better; however, Mitchie interrupts him mid-sentence, saying that saving the camp is more important. Shane responds that saving the camp is important to him too. Realizing that saving the camp isn’t going well, Shane leaves the room.

It’s important in a relationship to find balance, and in the midst of all this, Shane wants to steal her away to relax—but Mitchie isn’t making an effort. If a girl does this and doesn’t make time to see her boyfriend, then she’s too busy for a relationship. It’s fine to be busy, but it’s borderline disrespectful to maintain a romantic relationship while dismissing time with your partner.

This is where they sing their famous song “Never Want to Change a Thing.” They sing about not being on the same page and being different from each other, yet still valuing who they are. The irony of the song is that even though they say, “But I can’t stay mad at you for anything,” when the song ends, they angrily go back to their cabins.

The next day, Mitchie wakes up and wonders where everyone at camp has gone. Shane then explains that everyone has been committed to working hard on the Final Jam to put her at ease. He greets her with a “good morning,” hands her a mug, and gives her the rewritten song for the Final Jam. Shane really showed up for her, and Mitchie graciously thanks him.

I believe Shane’s love language is quality time, while Mitchie’s are acts of service—as we’ll see later.

While Shane goes to get his lunch at the cafeteria, Mitchie’s mom gives him a letter from Mitchie. We don’t know what the letter says, but the scene then cuts to Mitchie and Shane canoeing, just like they did in the first movie. I remembered when Disney used to have those behind-the-scenes notes that would display as the movie played, and one note mentioned that Joe tried to scare Demi by rolling toward the rocks.

They catch up and have fun—they talk, enjoy their picnic, and take a little romantic walk holding hands before Shane leaves. As I mentioned before, Shane’s love language is quality time; he feels loved when Mitchie spends time with him. They display each other’s love languages so beautifully in this movie.

Honestly, I don’t have much to say about Camp Rock’s performance in the Final Jam, since that was more of a group effort. But what I do have to say is that the hug between Shane and Mitchie was sweet—it definitely deserved to be mentioned.

Camp Rock finds out that they lost the competition, and while Shane and Mitchie are devastated, Shane comforts her by wrapping his arm around her. This is a heartbreaking moment for them. They’ve lost the place where they fell in love and are clinging to each other, trying to make it last.

Shane and Mitchie are clearing out the camp. Shane is still in disbelief that they lost the competition. Mitchie has accepted their loss but still pushes forward to pursue music. She apologizes for not getting to spend enough time together. Shane believes that he knows Mitchie now—but I have to disagree. I don’t think a single summer is enough time to fully know someone. What do you guys think?

Mitchie grabs Shane’s face, and they share their first kiss. It’s a tender and sweet moment. I don’t know if it’s just me as a fan, but I wish the movie had started with them already dating for a while, so they wouldn’t still be in the “getting-to-know-you” stage. That stage was meant for the first movie. I wish they had a long-term boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic here—and I also wish there had been more kiss scenes. <3

Camp Rock sings “This Is Our Song” to cope with their loss. Shane places his arm around Mitchie as he sings with the other campers. The movie closes with the Camp Rock campers and counselors from Camp Star deciding to switch to Camp Rock. Shane and Mitchie share a sweet hug at the end.

Wow, this movie was a lot to digest compared to the last one, but I can honestly say that I like it more now than I did as a kid. Back then, I used to see the movie and its actors as perfect human beings who could achieve anything. Now, I see real emotions in them—people who just happen to be extremely talented.

Okay, now it is time to give my results from the last movie to this one. Okay, for Shane and Mitchie they got a score of…

🩷 Stable Relationship = 18/20

You know, I’m as surprised as you are, because I thought they were going to be toxic or unstable—but they’re not. What strikes me as different is that they are two people who genuinely accept each other’s differences. Their progression into a relationship is a bit questionable, but when they are together, it develops in a natural way.

I get that their fights are ugly, but that’s what happens in real relationships when you feel unheard. Mitchie and Shane make up for it by showing up for each other afterward. Shane organizes the entire camp to take their practice seriously and put Mitchie at ease, while Mitchie sets time aside to spend more moments with Shane.

I’m aware that some fans think they are toxic, but that perception comes from the fights being heavily focused on, making it easy to dismiss their relationship. In reality, their relationship just needs time to adjust to sharing a life with someone who has a different lifestyle—which is completely normal.Anyways, this concludes my relationship diagnosis for Shane and Mitchie, tell me what you guys think about this article. Anyways I hope you have a lovely day and stay safe. Bye Beauts!🩷